Where the Boys Are- Looking for Love on a big island

Recently, one of my newly single friends was lamenting about her anniversary.. Not of her relationship, but of the breakup. In some cases, anniversaries can … Read the rest

The L Word… rantings from the underground battle

I am perpetually working on myself, as many people on this island. I tend to think I’m a pretty easy going person, and though it … Read the rest

A Sunday Kind of Love

Getting together w/ girls on a Sunday to read the NY Times wedding section; a common goal and dream of so many girls over, single … Read the rest


      Last night I came home and upon reaching my abode, I opened my mailbox and inside, I found that magical artifact that … Read the rest

Beeloved Manhattan- Reason # 5 (in no particular order)- Out of the Way Adorable Restaurants

Last Thursday, before heading up to Harlem’s National black theater to see the Adrian Alicea haute couture fall 11 show, I stopped to finally check … Read the rest


Love is in the air, everywhere I look around, love is in the air, every sight and every sound, or so the song says…. Well, … Read the rest

Ski School

In a few short hours I will depart for Stowe, Vt with 3 friends, and a bus packed tight w/ Zog sports enthusiasts who all … Read the rest

The Space Between Us

I need to take a moment this morning, to vent my frustration that I know everyone, in one way or another experiences either on a … Read the rest